EGO ----- Delete E from Ego.

EGO ----- Delete E from Ego. 

The story goes that Lord Shiva drank the poision which came out from churning of the ocean (SAGAR MANTHAN) by the God's and the Asura's (demons). From the churning of the Ocean's came out 'Amrut' and 'Poison', the question was who will drink the Poison? So Lord Shiva for the good of humanity drank this Poison, hence he is also called 'Neelkanth Mahadev' or God with the a Blue throat. He turned Blue as a result of drinking the Posion. One can just take it as a story and leave it at that. Or take the learning and make life better....

What does this story signify in real life.

When ever we get into an argument with some one, particulary some one we care about; our ego wants us to win the argument and prove a point. This desire to prove a point and prove ourselves right brings strain in our relationships. We quarrel, say rude things to others and focus more on our own importance rather than the importance of keeping peace and harmony in our relationships.

Instead of trying to prove ourselves right all the time, if we let go of our ego and selfishness, life becomes more meaning ful. However this process of giving up our ego and self is very tough, It requires a lot of patience and control to let go....There is a feeling of burning inside and one feels as if one has drank poison to reach that stage of calmness and selflessness..

Drink the poison of ego and selfishness.....this is what the above story signies to me.....it hurts....but in the long run, it is for the good of our relationships and people around us....just like Lord Shiva did for the good of humanity...

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Good Morning Friendz..... & 10 COMMANDMENTS

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10 COMMANDMENTS 

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10 COMMANDMENTS~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

1) Thou shall not worry, for worry is the most unproductive of all human activities. 

2) Thou shall not be fearful, for most of the things we fear never come to pass. 

3) Thou shall not cross bridges before you come to them, for no one yet has succeeded in accomplishing this. 

4) Thou shall face each problem as it comes. You can only handle one at a time anyway. 

5) Thou shall not take problems to bed with you, for they make very poor bedfellows. 

6) Thou shall not borrow other people's problems. They can better care for them than you can. 

7) Thou shall not try to relive yesterday for good or ill, it is forever gone. Concentrate on what is happening in your life and be happy now! 

8) Thou shall be a good listener, for only when you listen do you hear different ideas from your own. It is hard to learn something new when you are talking, and some people do know more than you do. 

9) Thou shall not become "bogged down" by frustration, for ninety percent of it is rooted in self-pity and will only interfere with positive action. 

10) Thou shall count thy blessings, never overlooking the small ones, for a lot of small blessings add up to a big one. 

 

 

 

      

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Tips for Peace of Mind

Tips for Peace of Mind

 

When you were child you had a pure mind; the mind which was free from worries and anxieties. As the time passed, you were influenced by several social, personal, familial and official crises such as financial complications, broken relationship, lack of trust, joblessness, failure in business, loss of respect and so on. When the mind is stressful, the associated germs of negativity, jealousy and pessimism add fuel to fire and hence your pure mind becomes impure. These impurities if taken out can bring back the mental purity hence real spirit of joy of childhood can be attained up to an adequate level.  Off course you cannot fix all of your problem at once but you can train your mind to develop the skills which can help either bypass or overcome the depressed  and tragic situations so as to give you a big time relaxation while you focus on the solution to your problems. Below are some techniques which can be used to combat the peace stealing triggers:

1. Mind your own business. Yes, please mind your own business. When you start being concerned about things which are not related to you, you lose your grip on your thought process which often results in negativity disturbing the mental peace. Basically, your mind starts wandering here and there. As you know that a non-focused mind is evil's workshop hence the germs of negativity and jealousy gain more strength. So next time an unnecessary thought comes to your mind, think whether this is really something you should be worrying for? If not, shun it right away and focus on something positive, practical and fruitful.  Article by Junaid.Tahir
2. Surround yourself in positive people. Ignore negative comments and stay away from negative souls. When someone is negative, he spreads negativity and you get affected. Permanently staying with such people will have long term impact on your character so think about your company.
3. Don't think about others too much. Remember the great quote: small minds discuss people; Average minds discuss events; Higher minds discuss ideas and Great minds act in silence. Don't allow your brain to compare yourself to others as this is an insult to yourself. Don't be Jealous; it's a heart killing disease, get rid of it as soon as possible. When you are jealous you focus on finding faults in others even if they don't have. This poisons your soul and steals the mental peace.  Article by Junaid.Tahir
4. You can't keep everyone happy. Don't be over sensitive. Be natural and genuine in what you do. Be positive, constructive and ethical in your deeds and then don't really care too much about others. Be aware, don't apply this formula to too closed relations. Develop trust to establish powerful relationships.
5. Control your mood swings as it is an indication of unstable personality. Do it by not being over sensitive to others. Stop being reactive and implosive. Stay calm.
6. Ignore your thoughts about being unlucky. Bad luck happens to everyone. It's not your fault at all. Time whether good or bad, passes quickly. Develop the power of not looking back into your past. Believe in the power of Now.  Believe in your skills. Work hard and have faith in God; you will get what you have been entitled for. Be patient and see what God has planned for you. Patience and consistency in your deeds is the key to success.
7. Simplicity in your character and living style can overcome the stress and improve your happiness index. Don't be socially sensitive and start following every single trend your social circle is following.  

With these recommendations, I believe you can bring major changes in your life style hence attain back your mental peace. What are your recommendations in gaining mental peace?

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20 Steps to Faith

20 Steps to Faith ( Author Unknown )

  1. Faith is the ability to not panic.

  2. If you worry, you didn't pray. If you pray, don't worry. 

  3. As a child of God, prayer is kind of like calling home every day.

  4. Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not be bent out of shape.

  5. When we get tangled up in our problems, be still. God wants us to be  still so He can untangle the

knot.

  6. Do the math. Count your blessings.

  7. God wants spiritual fruit, not religious nuts.

  8. Dear God: I have a problem. It's me.

  9. Silence is oftenmisinterpreted, but never misquoted. 

  10. Laugh every day, it's like inner jogging.

  11. The most important things in your home are the people.

  12. Growing old is inevitable, growing up is optional.

  13. There is no key to happiness. The door is always open. 

  14. A grudge is a heavy thing to carry.

  15. He who dies with the most toys is, nonetheless, still dead.

  16. We do not remember days, but moments. Life moves too fast, so enjoy your precious moments. 

  17. Nothing is real to you until you experience it, otherwise it's just hearsay.

  18. It's all right to sit on your pity pot every now and then. Just be sure to flush when you are done. 

  19. Surviving and living your life successfully requires courage.

 The goals and dreams you're seeking require courage and risk-taking. Learn from the turtle, it only makes progress when it sticks out its neck. 

 20. Be more concerned with your character than your reputation. Your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.

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GOOD MORNING FRIENDS ! Wish U All a Splendid Day 5 Beautiful Thoughts for a Beautiful Life

Life is Beautiful. 

With so many beautiful people around, it gives me no reason to be afraid of the bumps now and then. Just to be in the flow is all that I look forward to !!
Lets celebrate life each day that we are gifted with !!!

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5 Beautiful Thoughts for a Beautiful Life Life would be perfect if...  anger had a STOP button Mistakes had a REWIND button Hard times had a FORWARD button and Good Times a PAUSE button

The bird asked the bumblebee: "You work so hard to make the honey and humans just take it away, doesn't it make you feel bad?" "No," said the bee, "because they will never take from me the art of making it."

What stands behind us and what stands before us are tiny matters compared to what is within us.

The happiness of our lives depends on the quality of our thoughts But the quality of our thoughts depends on the people in our lives.

We receive a lot of unconditional love when we're born.  We receive a lot of unconditional respect when we die.  We just need to learn how to handle the between...

Remind this to those you love...

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