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Monday, December 18, 2023

*कृतज्ञता*🔸️

 


🔸️*कृतज्ञता*🔸️
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कोण कसं वागला या विचारात स्वतःला त्रास करून घेण्यापेक्षा आपण पुढे कसं वागायचं याचा विचार करा .आपण कुठे चुकलो याचा अभ्यास करा. त्यांच्या चुका तिथेच सोडून द्या आणि पुढच्या प्रवासाला सुरूवात करा.या दुनियेत असा एकही मनुष्य नाही ज्याच्या जीवनात दुःख,अडचणी नाहीत. ज्याने सृष्टी निर्माण केली त्यालाही हे सर्व भोगावं लागलंय . आपण तर साधारण मनुष्य आहोत.सर्व गोष्टी आपल्या मनासारख्या झाल्या पाहिजेत हा आग्रहच माणसाच्या सर्व दुःखाला कारणीभूत ठरतो. *कोणाच्या वाईट वागण्याने आपलं काहीही वाईट होत नसतं.* मिळतं तेच जे आपण पेरलेलं असतं. आपल्याशी कोण कसही वागेना आपण सगळ्यांशी चांगलंच वागायचं. इतकं चांगलं की विश्वासघात करणारा ही पुन्हा जवळ येण्यासाठी तळमळला पाहिजे.आयुष्याची खरी किंमत तेव्हाच कळते जेव्हा स्वतःच्या जीवनात संघर्ष करण्याची वेळ येते. *आयुष्यात कितीही कठीण परिस्थिती आली तरी घाबरून जाऊ नका.फक्त एकच गोष्ट लक्षात ठेवा आपण जिवंत आहोत म्हणजे खूप काही शिल्लक आहे.* जी माणसं स्वतःच्या परिस्थितीला स्वतःची ताकद बनवतात ती माणसं आयुष्यात कधीही अपयशी होत नाहीत.जगणं कोणाचंही सोपं नसतं. आपण सोडून बाकी सगळ्यांचं चांगलं आहे असं फक्त आपल्याला वाटत असतं, *सर्वात सुखी माणूस तोच आहे जो आपली किंमत स्वतः ठरवतो आणि सर्वात दुःखी माणूस तोच आहे जो आपली तुलना इतरांशी करतो.*
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ज्या पात्रतेने तुम्हाला नोकरी दिली, तीच पात्रता एखाद्या व्यक्तीकडे आहे त्याला अजूनही नोकरी नाही.ज्या प्रार्थनेचे उत्तर देवाने तुमच्यासाठी दिले, तीच प्रार्थना इतर लोक करत आहेत पण यश मिळाले नाही. तुम्ही रोज सुरक्षितपणे जो रस्ता वापरता, तोच रस्ता आहे जिथे अनेकांनी आपले मौल्यवान जीव गमावले.ज्या मंदिरामध्ये देवाने तुम्हाला आशीर्वाद दिला, त्याच मंदिरामध्ये इतर लोकही पूजा करतात, तरीही त्यांचेजीवन विसंवादात आहे. तुम्ही हॉस्पिटलमध्ये वापरलेला बेड, तुम्ही बरे झालात आणि डिस्चार्ज मिळाला, त्याच बेडवर इतर अनेकांनी अखेरचा श्वास घेतला.ज्या पावसाने तुमच्या शेतात चांगले पीक आले, त्याच पावसाने दुसऱ्याचे शेत उध्वस्त केले.कारण तुमच्याकडे जे काही आहे ती फक्त *"ईश्वरी कृपा"* आहे. तुमच्याकडे असलेल्या सर्व गोष्टींचा तो दाता आहे.म्हणुनच तुमच्याकडे असलेल्या प्रत्येक गोष्टीसाठी *कृतज्ञ* रहा. पश्चात्ताप भूतकाळ बदलू शकत नाही आणि काळजी भविष्याला आकार देऊ शकत नाही. म्हणूनच वर्तमानाचा आनंद घेणे हेच जीवनाचे खरे सुख आहे. *दुसऱ्यांबद्दल वाईट बोलुन त्यांचे दुर्गुण सांगून,आपला चांगुलपणा आणि कर्तृत्व कधीच सिद्ध होत नसते.*
वय आणि पैसा यावर कधीच गर्व करू नये. कारण ज्या गोष्टी मोजल्या जातात, त्या नक्कीच संपतात. कठीण परिस्थितीमध्ये संघर्ष केल्यानंतर एक बहुमूल्य संपत्ती विकसित होते, ज्याच नाव आहे, आत्मविश्वास. *जगणं हे आईच्या स्वाभिमानासाठी असावं आणि जिंकणं वडिलांच्या कर्तव्यापोटी.*
समोरच्या व्यक्तीशी नेहमी चांगले वागा ती व्यक्ती चांगली आहे म्हणून नव्हे तर तुम्ही चांगले आहात म्हणून......!
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Friday, December 15, 2023

A child's wish (A small story)

 A child's wish (A small story)

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A Primary School teacher asks her pupils to write an essay
"what wish do you want from God?" At the end of the day, the teacher
collects all the essays given by her pupils. She takes them to her
house, sits and marking them. while marking the essays, the teacher
sees a strange essay written by one of her pupils. That essay made
her very emotional. Her husband comes and sits beside her and saw
her crying. The husband asked her wife "What happened?"
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She answered "Read this. It is one of my pupil's essay."
"Oh God, Make me into a Television.
I want to live like the TV in my house.
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In my house, the TV is very valuable. All of my family members
sit around it. They are very interested in it.
When the TV is talking, my parents listen to it happily and calmly.
They dont shout at the TV. They dont quarrel with the TV.
They dont slap at the TV. So I want to become a TV.
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The TV is the center of attraction in my house.
I want to receive the same special care that the TV receives from
my parents. Even when it is not working, the TV has a lot of value.
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When my dad and mom come home, immediately they sit
in front of the TV, switch on it and spend hours.
The TV is stealing the time of my dad and my mom.
If I become a TV, they will spend their time with me.
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While watching the TV, my parents laugh a lot and they smile
many times. But I want my parents should laugh and smile with me.
So please make me into a TV. .
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And last but not least, If I become a TV, surely I can make my parents
happy and entertain them. Lord I don't ask you anything. I just want to
live like a TV. Please make me into a TV."
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The husband completed reading the essay.
He said "My God, poor kid. He feels loneliness. He did not receive
enough love and care from his parents. His parents are horrible".
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The eyes of the primary School teacher filled with tears.
She looked at her husband and said "Our son wrote this eassy
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Greetings and love:

2 Best Friends Story:

 





2 Best Friends Story:
2 Best Friends Story:
Two friends loved each other very much…
Unfortunately the one friend died.
the 2nd friend was upset so much & he couldn’t stop his tears.
He kept on crying day & night.
Many people gave sympathy but no argument could stop his tears.
One night he had a dream.
He saw his friend in heaven with so many boys and girls of his age.
He felt relax.
But he noticed that everyone was in fairy dress and had a lightened candle in their hands.
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But his friend had a candle which was not lightened.
He asked his friend ” Why your candle is not lightened?”
His friend said ” Whenever I enlightened my candle, your tears fall on it. Please stop crying yaar..”

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Saturday, August 12, 2023

I wish you enough....

 I wish you enough.... 


Recently I overheard a mother and daughter in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure. 

Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the mother said, "I love you and I wish you enough". 

The daughter replied, "Mom, our life together has been more than enough.  Your love is all I ever needed.  I wish you enough, too, Mom". 

 
They kissed and the daughter left. The mother walked over to the window where I was seated. Standing there I could see she wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on her privacy but she welcomed me in by asking,  "Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?".  

Yes, I have," I replied. "Forgive me for asking, 
but why is this a forever good-bye?". 

"I am old and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is - the next trip back will be 
for my funeral," she said.

"When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, 'I wish you enough'. May I ask what that means?". 

She began to smile. "That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone". She paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail and she smiled even more. "When we said , 'I wish you enough', we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with jus! t enough good things to sustain them".  Then turning toward me, she shared the following as if she were reciting it from memory. 

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude 
bright no matter how gray the day may appear.

 
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more. 

I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting. 

I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger. 

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting. 

I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess. 

I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye. 


She then began to cry and walked away.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them but then an entire life to forget them. 


TAKE TIME TO LIVE.....
 
 
To all my friends and loved ones, 

I WISH YOU ENOUGH........

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Friday, July 28, 2023

I LOVE THIS ANALOGY:

 I LOVE THIS ANALOGY:

You are holding a cup of coffee when someone comes along and bumps into you or shakes your arm, making you spill your coffee everywhere. Why did you spill the coffee?
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"Because someone bumped into me!!!"
Wrong answer.
You spilled the coffee because there was coffee in your cup. Had there been tea in the cup, you would have spilled tea. Whatever is inside the cup is what will spill out.
Therefore, when life comes along and shakes you (which WILL happen), whatever is inside you will come out. It's easy to fake it, until you get rattled.
So we have to ask ourselves... “what's in my cup?"
When life gets tough, what spills over? Joy, gratitude, peace and humility?
Anger, bitterness, victim mentality and quitting-tendencies?
Life provides the cup, YOU choose how to fill it.
Today let's work towards filling our cups with gratitude, forgiveness, joy, words of affirmation, resilience, positivity; and kindness, gentleness and love for others.
Source: Austin Tang
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Friday, July 21, 2023

12 Types Of Pain That Are Directly Linked To Emotional States

 =HEALTH=

12 Types Of Pain That Are Directly Linked To Emotional States According to:
Dr. Susan Babel , Psychologist:- Emotions do Affect Chronic Pain.
She says that chronic pain, beside physical injury, may be caused by stress and emotional issues.
Let’s take a look at what pain in a particular area of your body indicates:
1.Head
Headaches can be caused by stress life. If someone has chronic headaches she/he needs to grab some time for themselves on daily basis. Relaxing may help you to relieve your body from the head pain.
2.Neck
Neck pain implies the need to forgive. It may be to forgive yourself or to forgive some other person. It is very important to focus on things that you love about yourself or what others love in you.
3. Shoulders
Pain in the shoulders is sign that person carries a heavy emotional burden. Shoulders carry everything. To solve this problem share the load with friends or family.
4.Upper Back
Upper back pain manifests lack of emotional support. Probably the person is holding back feelings or doesn’t feel appreciated. Just talk about your feelings with your partner or close friend.
5.Lower Back
Pain in the lower back shows that person has financial worries. Sit down and focus on managing money.
6.Elbows
Elbow and arm pain signifies a lack of flexibility. Try not to resist the natural changes in your life.
7.Hands
Pain in the hands may be caused by a lack of friends. Try to meet new people.
8.Hips
Fear of change, moving or waiting on a big decision can cause the hip pain. Make the changes step by step.
9.Knees
Pain in the knee is a sign of high self-esteem. Maybe you should try to do some volunteering work and remember no one is perfect.
10.Calves
Calf pain is caused by stress, emotional tension or jealousy. Maybe it is time to let go the jealousy or any big stressor in your life.
11.Ankles
Pain in the ankle means that you need more pleasure in your life. Try to enjoy the little things and every moment in your life.
12.Feet
Foot pain occurs if you fight with depression. Depression is a specific disease, but for a start try to find a new hobby or just adopt a pet.
This concept is scientifically proven so before adopting medicine or consulting the doctor, give some time and observe your thought ...it heals you automatically
THIS THEORY( this is proven science) SAYS THAT = 90% SICKNESSES are PHYSCOSOMITIC...
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Thursday, July 13, 2023

Swami Vivekananda

 Swami Vivekananda 


When I Asked God for Strength
He Gave Me Difficult Situations to Face
When I Asked God for Brain & Brown
He Gave Me Puzzles in Life to Solve
When I Asked God for Happiness
He Showed Me Some Unhappy People
When I Asked God for Wealth
He Showed Me How to Work Hard
When I Asked God for Favors
He Showed Me Opportunities to Work Hard
When I Asked God for Peace
He Showed Me How to Help Others
God Gave Me Nothing I Wanted
He Gave Me Everything I Needed

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- Swami Vivekananda _._

Friendship

 Friendship


There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails in to the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. 

Finally, the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. 

The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want to open their hearts to us.
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Tuesday, April 25, 2023

MUST READ

 An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45 years old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window.


The Father asked his Son, "What is this?"


The Son replied "It is a crow".


After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, "What is this?"


The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow".


After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time,   What is this?"


At this time some ex-pression of irritation was felt in the Son's tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff.. "It's a crow, a crow".


A little after, the Father again asked his Son t he 4th time, "What is this?"


This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you keep asking me the  same question again and again, although I have told you so many times 'IT  IS A CROW'. Are you not able to understand this?"


A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening  a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary :-


"Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a  crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and  


I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time h e asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I  did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child".


While the little child asked him 23 times "What is this", the Father had  felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times and when today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt   irritated and annoyed.


So..


If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a  burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble and  kind to them. Be considerate to your parents.From today say this aloud, "I   want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I  was a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me.  


Say a prayer to God, "I will serve my old parents in the BEST way. I will   say all good and kind words to my dear parents, no matter how they behave. 
 

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Wednesday, March 8, 2023

Happy Women's Day

 Happy Women's Day

Rock the world ladies!
A salute to ladies!
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WOMAN MEANS :-
W ➖ WONDERFUL MOTHER
O ➖ OUTSTANDING FRIEND
M ➖ MARVELLOUS DAUGHTER
A ➖ ADORABLE SISTER
N ➖ NICEST GIFT TO MEN FROM GOD
Pass to every man to know the value of women
&
Pass to every woman to feel proud!
Bless you!
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Monday, March 6, 2023

HAPPY HOLI HAPPY HOLI

 HAPPY HOLI HAPPY HOLI

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May God🙏🏻Gift you all the
Colours🌈Of Life,
Colours🌈Of Joy,
Colours🌈Of Happiness,
Colours🌈Of Friendship,
Colours🌈Of Love
and all other
Colours🌈You Want to
Paint 🎨in Your Life.
“ *Happy Holi* ”
OM SAIRAM
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Wednesday, March 1, 2023

Whom to blame...!!

Whom to blame...!!






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