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Saturday, August 3, 2019

HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY



 HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY

 
"BEAUTY  N EEDS NO EX PLAN ATION "!!!!!!!!
Daily prayer:  Please God,  put your arms around my shoulders and your hand over my mouth .
Many people will walk in and out of your life. But only true friends will leave footprints in your heart
To handle yourself, use your head; 
To handle others, use your heart. 


Anger is only one letter short of danger 
If someone betrays you once, it is his fault; 
If he betrays you twice, it is your fault.

Great minds discuss ideas; 


Average minds discuss events; 

Small minds discuss people.



He, who loses money, loses much; 

He, who loses a friend, loses much more; 

He, who loses faith, loses all. 

Beautiful young people are accidents of nature.

Learn from the mistakes of others. You can't live long enough to make them all yourself. 




Friends, you and me...... 

You brought another friend ... 

And then there were 3 . 

We started our group . 

Our circle of friends.... 

There is no beginning or end .. ..



Yesterday is history. 

Tomorrow is mystery. 

Today is a gift.

It's  Friendship Day . Show your friends how much you care .. Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND. If it comes back to you, then you'll know you have a 

circle of friends.
  
 HI 
   HOW IS EVERY ONE AT HOME &  H P HOME
 
A friend is someone we turn to
when our spirits need a lift.
A friend is someone we treasure
for our friendship is a gift.
A friend is someone who fills our lives
with beauty, joy, and grace.
And makes the whole world we live in
a better and happier place.

ANDFriendship is a priceless gift,
that cannot be bought or sold.
But it's value is far greater
than a mountain made of gold.

For gold is cold and lifeless,
it can neither see nor hear.
And in a time of trouble,
it is powerless to cheer.

It has no ears to listen,
no heart to understand.
It cannot bring you comfort,
or reach out a helping hand.
So when you ask God for a gift,
be thankful if he sends...
Not diamonds, pearls or riches,
but the love of real true friends.
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Sunday, July 28, 2019

Why Fathers are neglected in Old Age?

Why Fathers are neglected in Old Age?

Vijay B Mansukhani

*Do Take Your Valuable Time Read Through.*
*In the lifetime of Family Settings, there are 3 Dispensations of Power.*
* - The 1st is the first 25 years in the life of the family* 
(Father, Mother Children) where power indisputably rests with the Father.

*- The 2nd is after the kids have grown started working*
when the power shifts to the Mother.

*- The 3rd is when the Kids move out of the Family house or
Start their own Families* When the Power moves to the Children.

*1.* We'll start from the 1st Dispensation. Total dominance of the father.
He is the Lion of the Tribe of his House. The boss.

*2.* During this dispensation, the father rules with an iron fist.
He barks orders determines what does or does not happen.

*3.* The father often vents out corporal punishment to the recalcitrant children. They grow to fear him more than they love him.
*4* The father is the provider for the family everyone is aware of that fact
with all attendant consequences.

*5.* Then the 2nd Dispensation sets in. The children have finished school and have started working. Power shifts to the mother.
*6.* When the children start earning their own money, for some reason,
it's their mothers they decide to look after. They are closer to her.

*7.* While the father was in charge, he was busy with the business of providing. He didn't have much time to be a friend to the children.
*8.* They spent more time with their mum and invariably grew closer to her. They also see their mum as co-victims of the father's tyranny.
*9.* The mother takes centre stage at this point.
She is the first to know what's happening with the children
she has advantage.

*10.* Should any of the daughters give birth, she is the one that goes for babysitting and the children spoil her with gifts.
*11.* At this stage, the father is wishing for some bond with the children like they have with their mother, but that boat has sailed.
*12.* Because the mother doesn't rely much on the father for her needs at this stage, she is less likely to tolerate his lordship. Friction.
*13.* Then the 3rd and last dispensation. Power has shifted to the children.
They are self-sufficient, live on their own have own families.

*14.* More often than not, whenever there is a quarrel between father mother, the children side with the mother.Years of joint- victim hood at play.
*15.* Children have been known to come to the house to warn their father
not to 'disturb' their mother. Next thing, extended visitations.

*16.* Woe beside the father if his finances are precarious at this stage.
You will be humbled by force. The gang-up is real.

*17.* This causes most men to fall ill develop different complications.
By the time the forces are arrayed against you, you will think well.

*18.* Stroke, Hypertension, High-Blood Pressure. The man has a large family
but no relationship with them in later life. Troubling thought.

*19.* Moral, dear men, while the power lies with us,
let us wield it with posterity in mind. It won't be with us forever.

*20.* With the way you are treating your wife now,
how will she treat you when power shifts to her?

*21.* What relationship do you have with your family?
Loving dad or despotic, tyrannical provider?

*22.* Remember, the children always side with their mother.
Aim to do enough to at least get a fair hearing in future moments
of family strife.

*23.* Invest wisely for the future so that you won't have to beg
to be taken care of if despite your best efforts, you find yourself alone.

*ADVISE TO CHILDREN:-
* IT IS NOT GOOD TO ABANDON YOUR FATHER WHO DENIED HIMSELF TO GET YOU PREPARED FOR LIFE WHO SACRIFICIALLY SOWED TO MAKE YOU WHO YOU ARE.
HONOUR YOUR BOTH PARENTS TAKE GOOD CARE OF THEM IN THEIR OLD AGE. THAT IS HOW YOU TOO WILL SOW INTO YOUR FUTURE.
*DON'T LET NEGLECTING YOUR FATHER ( OR PARENTS )
BE A CURSE ON YOU INTO YOUR FUTURE.*

*ADVISE TO MOTHERS:-
* DON'T INCITE YOUR CHILDREN AGAINST THEIR FATHER.
*Parenthood Is Not Easy Despite Its Joys.
There Is No Manual On How It Works.*

*Wishing All Of You A Very Healthy, Wonderful, Blessed,
Peaceful, Prosperous Happy Life Ahead*

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