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Friday, March 13, 2015

Learning of the day

A 3-year old boy was trying to remove a bottle of milk from the refrigerator when he lost his grip on the slippery bottle and it fell, spilling its contents all over the kitchen floor—a veritable sea of milk!
When his mother came into the kitchen, instead of yelling at him, or giving him a lecture, or punishing him, said, "Robert, what a great and wonderful mess you have made! I have rarely seen such a huge puddle of milk. Well, the damage has already been done. Would you like to get down and play in the milk for a few minutes before we clean it up?"
Indeed, he did. After a few minutes, his mother said, "You know, Robert, whenever you make a mess like this, eventually you have to clean it up and restore everything to its proper order. So, how would you like to do that? We could use a sponge, a towel, or a mop. Which do you prefer?" He chose the sponge and together they cleaned up the spilled milk.
His mother then said, "You know, what we have here is a failed experiment in how to effectively carry a big milk bottle with two tiny hands. Let’s go out in the back yard and fill the bottle with water and see if you can discover a way to carry it without dropping it." The little boy learned that if he grasped the bottle at the top near the lip with both hands, he could carry it without dropping it. What a wonderful lesson!
Don't be afraid of your kids/subordinates making mistakes. Instead, understand that mistakes are just opportunities to learning something new. Even if the experiment "doesn’t work," we usually learn something valuable from it and grow.
Wouldn’t it be great if all parents/managers would 
respond the way Robert’s 
mother responded to him?


Wednesday, March 11, 2015

<><>Good Morning<><>

To love someone is a natural instinct.

To be loved by someone is luck.

To live with someone you love is achievement.

To live with someone who loves you is life.

Orkut Scraps - Good Day


The Mirror Tells no Lies

The Mirror Tells no Lies

 Did you know that everything you see in others, yes, the good, the bad, and the ugly, is simply a mirror reflection of yourself? For you to be able to recognize a weakness, or see strength in others means that you have to have at least a trace of it in yourself.  Otherwise, how could you then recognize it in others?  If you want to have successful relationships then you have to take responsibility and ownership for your own thoughts and feelings, this is the key to building inner strength and emotional stability.

At first you may be shocked by the thought that that person who drives you crazy or causes you pain is mirroring back something within you!  However, if you truly understand this deep spiritual point, then it can set you free from creating the habit of complaining, blaming and comparing. This firmly puts the ball back in your court. You can no longer play the victim – you need to stand up and take responsibility for what and who you are – it is always easier to point the finger at others. This is a real step towards freedom and self-mastery.

Just as a mirror tells no lies, so ‘our judgement’ and especially criticism of other people is most interesting, because remember – ‘the mirror tells no lies’. The fact that you can recognize ego in others, means that, sorry folks no doubt about it, you must have it in yourself. The fact that you recognize kindness and generosity in another means you too must have applied those very same qualities. At some point in time you have been guilty of the same deeds that you now find yourself condemning.

Every time you find yourself commenting on the actions of others, it would serve you well to take a moment for reflection to check your own actions. And here is another very beautiful point of learning: as you begin to correct yourself, you will see that others begin to change and mirror back the very same correction. If you get irritated and aggressive others will also. However, if you show humility in a situation, most likely others will start to show humility too. Although you may need to be patient before seeing the results!

You have to be willing to recognize your own shortcomings.  If you really wish to build up your inner power, then you will see the mirror as a gift that allows you to see yourself and take the necessary steps towards positive change. It takes a great soul to initiate a great act… to forgive… to step back… and give others a chance… to maintain silence instead of shouting back… this new behaviour takes time but also brings great rewards.

Just as a mirror can magnify a light, so too you can light up the life of others by shining brightly yourself.  When you choose to see the best in them, by accentuating the positive and seeing the beauty in each soul then your light also shines. By allowing others to see their own truth, beauty and magnificence, then you mirror back to them their pure potential. This is perhaps the greatest service you can do for others because therein lies the healing for each and every soul, to be able to really see the essential goodness that is in each one of us.

When your mirror is dirty you cannot even see the beauty that is right in front of your eyes. What is obscuring your vision? It is the dirt of your own negative vision and attitude that creates waste thoughts and feelings. Negative attitudes and beliefs can only cloud your vision. Release them.

It’s time… to accept that ‘the mirror tells no lies’.  Remember that the method for your own salvation from old patterns of thinking and finger pointing, the blaming others and everything that goes with it is to simply begin with some small change in your life. Begin by polishing your own mirror, and then reflect out only goodness and without a doubt only goodness can shine back to you.

‘It’s Time…’

Tuesday, March 10, 2015

A wonderfullstory MY WISH FORYOU..

Subject: A wonderfullstory

A woman came out of her house and saw 3 old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them. She said "I don't think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat."
"Is the man of the house home?", they asked. 

"No", she replied. "He's out."
"Then we cannot come in", they replied.
In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened.

"Go tell them I am home and invite them in!"

The woman went out and invited the men in"
"We do not go into a House together," they replied. 

"Why is that?" she asked.

One of the old men explained: "His name is Wealth," he said pointing to one of his friends, and said pointing to another one, "He is Success, and I am Love." Then he added, "Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home."

The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed. "How nice!!", he said. "Since that is the case, let us invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!"
His wife disagreed. "My dear, why don't we invite Success?"
Their daughter-in-law was listening from the other corner of the house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: "Would it not be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!"
"Let us heed our daughter-in-law's advice," said the husband to his wife.

"Go out and invite Love to be our guest."

The woman went out and asked the 3 old men, "Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest."
Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other 2 also got up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and Success: "I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?"
The old men replied together: "If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would've stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever He goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success!!!!!!"

-Where there is pain, I wish you peace and mercy.
-Where there is self-doubting, I wish you a renewed confidence in your ability to work through it.
-Where there is tiredness, or exhaustion, I wish you understanding, patience, and renewed strength.
-Where there is fear, I wish you love, and courage. 


Monday, March 9, 2015

10 signs of cancer you should know.=HEALTH-AWARENESS

10 signs of cancer you should know.

New symptoms means that something has changed in your body, and you want to know what that means. Our bodies are always changing, which is normal, but sometimes changes that seem normal can be signs of cancer.
Bear in mind that if you have the symptoms below do not directly mean that you are ill or have a cancer. – But always seek professional help if you symptoms are consistant and persistent.
1. Swollen Bumps, Lymph nodes
Nodes are small glands under the skin, generally in the shape of an almond. Most changes in them occur from normal infections. But some types of cancers, (Commonly leukemia and lymphoma), can make the lymph nodes swell.
If you have lumps or swelling under your skin anywhere in your body for more than 4 weeks, please visit your doctor.
2. Constant Tiredness
Healthy cells are in a battle with cancer cells this results in high amounts of oxygen & energy consumption, and thus making you feel very tired. Remember we are not talking about normal tiredness which goes with rest and sleep. The fatigue from a cancer is persistent and consistant.

3. Changes in the Bowel Functions
Having blood in the stool could be a sign of rectal or colon cancer. Diarrhea, Long-term constipation, and changes in the size of the stool may be signs of colon cancer. These symptoms should be taken seriously as color & rectal cancer are very common.
4. Severe Weight Loss 
About half of cancer patients reported unexplained weight loss. Some types of cancer cause alerted cellular metabolism, which makes you “hypermetabolic”, and thus losing weight without trying.
5. Permanent headaches 
Patients with brain cancer can notice the difference between regular headaches and cancer caused headaches, as brain tumors perpetuates pressure on the brain plates which results in a constant / permanent headaches. Also, brain tumors can cause seizures, vomiting, or loss of vision depending on the tumor and pressure location.
6. Lingering cough
Coughing causes could be ashtma, chronic bronchitis, emphysema. But a lingering cough that won’t go away at all it can be a sign of lung cancer.
Tobacco smoke causes 8 out of 10 diagnosis, so if you are smoker you are more endangered than non-smokers.
7. – Indigestion troubles
All of us suffer from time to time from heartburn, flatulence, nausea and indigestion troubles which is normal. But indigestion can also be a sign of a oesophagus  or stomach cancer.
If indigestion won’t go away, you should seek medical help.
8. Unusual bleeding
Coughing up blood could be a sign of Mesothelioma, Asbestos, or Lung cancer. Having bloody stool could be a sign of colon or rectal cancer. Bloody urine may be a sign of kidney or bladder cancer. Cervix cancer can cause abnormal vaginal bleeding. A bloody discharge from the nipple may be a sign of breast cancer. Unusual bleeding can happen in both early or advanced cancer, so please visit your doctor if you have it.
9. Painful urination – changes in Bladder Function
If you have blood in your urine or if you feel pain when urinating can be symptoms for bladder or prostate cancer, these are very serious syptoms, so visit your doctor immediately if you got one of them.
10. Skin changes
Moles and warts should be observed regularly.. changes in their size, or if hair is starting to grow on them, can be a sign of skin cancer – melanomas. if you got this, check your doctor as soon as possible as the success rate is very high when treated early.

Follow the mentioned tips to lead a healthy and a happy life.