Whom to blame...!!

Whom to blame...!!

 

   Whom to blame

Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes.

When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle Open.

 

He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

 

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all.

 

It happened to be a poisonous medicine Meant for adults in small dosages.

When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

 

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child,

 

He looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

 

QUESTIONS:

 

1. What were the five words?

2. What is the implication of this story?

 

 

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ANSWER:

 

The husband just said "I am with you Darling"

 

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior.

 

The Child is dead. He can never be brought back to life.

 

There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.

 

No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

 

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.

 

"*A* *journey of a thousand miles Begins with a single step.*"

 

   Take off all your envies, jealousies, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

 

    *MORAL OF THE STORY

 

Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this Way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

MEAN MUMS

   MEAN MUMS

 

Someday when my children are old enough to
understand the logic that motivates a parent, I will
tell them, as my Mean Mom told me: I loved you
enough . . . to ask where you were going, with whom,
and what time you would be home.

I loved you enough to be silent and let you
discover that your new best friend was a creep.

I loved you enough to stand over you for two hours
while you cleaned your room, a job that should have taken 15 minutes.

I loved you enough to let you see anger,
disappointment, and tears in my eyes. Children must
learn that their parents aren't perfect.

I loved you enough to let you assume the
responsibility for your actions even when the
penalties were so harsh they almost broke my heart.

But most of all, I loved you enough . . . to say
NO when I knew you would hate me for it.

Those were the most difficult battles of all. I'm
glad I won them, because in the end you won, too.
And someday when your children are old enough to;

understand the logic that motivates parents, you will tell them.

Was your Mom mean? I know mine was. We had the
meanest mother in the whole world! While other kids
ate candy for breakfast, we had to have cereal, eggs, and toast.

When others had a Pepsi and a Twinkie for lunch, we had to eat sandwiches.

And you can guess our mother fixed us a dinner that was
different from what other kids had, too.

Mother insisted on knowing where we were at all
times. You'd think we were convicts in a prison. She
had to know who our friends were, and what we were
doing with them. She insisted that if we said we
would be gone for an hour, we would be gone for an hour or less.

We were ashamed to admit it, but she had the nerve
to break the Child Labor Laws by making us work. We
had to wash the dishes, make the beds, learn to cook,

vacuum the floor, do laundry, empty the trash and all sorts of cruel jobs.

I think she would lie
awake at night thinking of more things for us to do.

She always insisted on us telling the truth, the
whole truth, and nothing but the truth. By the time
we were teenagers, she could read our minds and had
eyes in the back of her head. Then, life was really tough!

Mother wouldn't let our friends just honk the horn
when they drove up. They had to come up to the door
so she could meet them. While everyone else could
date when they were 12 or 13, we had to wait until we were 16.

Because of our mother we missed out on lots of
things other kids experienced. None of us have ever
been caught shoplifting, vandalizing other's
property or ever arrested for any crime. It was all her fault.

Now that we have left home, we are all educated,
honest adults. We are doing our best to be mean
parents just like Mom was.

I think that is what's wrong with the world today.
It just doesn't have enough mean moms!

HOLY GOOD FRIDAY

  HOLY GOOD FRIDAY

 

You”re In My Prayers…

May His Blessings Shine Upon You !

Strength To Conquer Mountains

Blessings Of The Lord…

Blessed Good Friday !

Shower His Blessings On You…

Nine requisites for contented living

1. Health enough to make work a pleasure   2. Wealth enough to support your needs.   3. Strength to battle with difficulties and overcome them. 4. Grace enough to confess your sins and forsake them 5.Patience enough to toil until some good is accomplished. 6. Charity enough to see some good in your neighbor. 7. Loveenough to move you to be useful and helpful to others. 8. Faith enough to make real the things of God. 9. Hopeenough to remove all anxious fears concerning the future.

All About Good Friday

      

Good Friday History, Information

Good Friday Definition and Summary Good Friday is the Friday of Holy Week, and commemorates the crucifixion and death of Jesus. Good Friday is a fast day in the Catholic Church, and falls within the Paschal Triduum. Basic Facts About Good Friday Liturgical Color(s) : Red (formerly black) Type of Holiday: Fast Day Time of Year : Friday of Holy Week within Duration : One Day Celebrates/Symbolizes : Jesus’ Passion, Crucifixion, and Death Alternate Names : Good Friday of the Lord’s Passion, Great Friday Scriptural References : Matthew 26-27; Mark 14-15; Luke 23; John 17-19 Introduction Good Friday, the Friday within Holy Week, is traditionally a time of fasting and penance, commemorating the anniversary of Christ’s crucifixion and death. The evening (at sunset) of Good Friday begins the second day of the Triduum. Good Friday worship services begin in the afternoon at 3:00 (the time Jesus likely died). Various traditions and customs are associated with the Western celebration of Good Friday. The singing (or preaching) of the Passion of St. John’s gospel consists of reading or singing parts of John’s gospel. The Veneration of the Cross is also common, where Christians approach a wooden cross and venerate it. In addition to these traditions, Holy Communion with the reserved host is practiced. In the modern Latin Rite of the Catholic Church, no Masses are said on Good Friday or Holy Saturday therefore the reser ved host from the Holy Maunday Mass is used. This is called the “Mass of the Pre-Sanctified.” Another service started by the Jesuit Alphonso Messia in 1732, now less common, the Tre Ore or “Three Hours,” is often held from noon until 3:00PM, and consists of seven sermons on the seven last words of Christ. This service has been popular in many Protestant churches. Good Friday, along with Ash Wednesday, is an official fast day of the Catholic Church. The Eastern Churches have different customs for the day they call “the Great Friday.” The Orthodox Church begins the day with Matins (Morning Prayer), where the “Twelve Gospels” is chanted, which consists of 12 passages drawn from the Passion narratives. In the morning, the “Little Hours” follow one after the other, consisting of Gospel, Epistle, and Prophet readings. Vespers (Evening Prayer) ends with a solemn veneration of the epitaphion, an embroidered veil containing scenes of Christ’s burial. Compline (Night Prayer) includes a lamentation placed on the Virgin Mary’s lips. On Good Friday night, a symbolic burial of Christ is performed. Traditionally, Chaldean and Syrian Christians cease using their customary Shlama greeting (”peace be with you”) on Good Friday and Holy Saturday, because Judas greeted Christ this way. They use the phrase “The light of God be with your departed ones” instead. In Russia, the tradition is to bring out a silver coffin, bearing a cross, and surrounded with candles and flowers. The faithful creep on their knees and kiss and venerate the image of Christ’s body painted on the “winding sheet” (shroud). History The celebration of Good Friday is ancient, and some of the practices associated with Good Friday are attested to by Egeria in the 4th century. The day gradually became a time of penance and fasting as the anniversary of the death of Christ. The name “Good Friday” possibly comes from “God’s Friday,” although the exact reason for the current name is unclear. Various churches observe Good Friday in addition to Catholics and Eastern Christians. Anglicans, Methodists, and Lutherans all observe Good Friday to varying degrees. MAY GOD BLESS ALL

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Stay away from Anger

This is so beautiful!!! for my lovely friends 

 Stay away from Anger

It hurts only You and nobody else.
If you are right, then there is no

Need to get angry;

And if you are wrong,

Then you don't have

Any right to get angry.

Patience with family is love,
Patience with others is respect,

Patience with self is confidence and
Patience with GOD is faith.

Never think hard about the past, 

It brings tears,

Don't think more about the future,

It brings fear,
Live this moment with a Smile,

It brings cheer.

Every test in our life makes us

Bitter or better,
Every problem comes to

Make us or break us,

The choice is ours whether we

Become victims or victorious.

 

Search for a

Beautiful heart not a beautiful face.

Beautiful things are not always good,

But, good things are always beautiful.

Do you know why God created

Gaps between fingers?

So that someone who is special to you

COMES and fills those gaps by

Holding your hand forever.

Never forget this advice!
Happiness keeps You Sweet,

Trials keep You Strong,

Success keeps You Glowing,

And but Only God keeps You Going!