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Sunday, April 22, 2012

The Home For All…


The Home For All…

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The
living room said: “Hey look at me, I’m so huge. I’m the one decorated
with beautiful things. I’m the most sparkling room of the house. I’m
the best.”



The bedroom could not resist this challenge,
he retorted and said: “OK! You may be the biggest but I am the most
important room in the house because everybody longs to take rest here
when they are tired. The energy of everybody gets revitalised when they
come to me.”



The kitchen scoffed and said: “Can you rest
with an empty stomach! If it were not for me what could anybody eat?
Where could the food be cooked? Where would the energy come from
without food? So you see, I am the most important.”
The
little bathroom was feeling neglected. He dare not speak too loud among
these luminous dignitaries. He said meekly: “What about me, everybody
needs to use me too, even if I’m smelly sometimes.”



Now who could decide which was most valuable room of the house? Could
these rooms do without each other?



No,
no… They could all be the best places in the room. But still there
was something more in there which never spoke, nor could be seen, but
was always there. In fact it was in & out of all the walls of the
house, all the rooms were rooted in it!


It is the SPACE! The space was not confined to a single room but
instead it was present everywhere…



It
was because of the space that all the rooms were existing! Every room
thought: “This is my space! The space was not in the rooms but the
truth is that the rooms were in the space. The space existed silently,
all pervasively, selflessly, and so could hold within itself all their
vanities and yet it is not bound by them.
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support .. our fellow members”
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!! Cut Stress In A Relationship !!


!! Cut Stress In A Relationship !!


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10 Ways to cut stress in a relationship


A Good communication and self management can remove the stress occurring in your married life. 

1. Prevention: If the stress comes from some factor outside your family, don’t bring it home and unintentionally make your spouse share it.
2. Self understanding: In moments of stress, you need to learn to control yourself. Evaluate your feelings and do not treat your spouse shabbily.
3. Leave others alone: Staying away for a while from your spouse could be an effective way to prevent conflict from springing up. Make your spouse understand why you are maintaining a distance.
4. Responsibility: Be conscious of your obligation to keep your relation in harmony. Don’t let any stress damage the marital bond that has flourished so far.
5. Stop worrying: Worries come when you anticipate something in the future while doing nothing about it. But have a plan B, it makes you ready and you find nothing to worry about.
6. Do not stay still: When you are under pressure, the easiest thing to do is give up. But if you give up during hard times, it will haunt you for the rest of your life
7. Self control: You should be able to take control of your emotions and once you do that you will automatically be able to control stress.
8. Be flexible: You should be able to identify a situation and where it will lead to. When you know things will not go your way, try and be flexible.
9. Go away: When you feel your relation is a little tense, it is best to take your mind off everything and do some activity that keeps you occupied.
10. Ask others: Asking and consulting people once in a while for advice is not a bad option at all. Ask them how it was like when under stress and how was their feeling at that moment. That way you will know that they reacted and what they did.




 

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10 SELF IMPROVEMENT ACTIVITIES


10 SELF IMPROVEMENT ACTIVITIES



These self improvement activities will help you become more productive, get into the positive state of mind and achieve better quality of life. In this article you will also find out how to use your energy effectively, what the quickest way to achieve personal growth is and how to excel in every activity.

1st Self Improvement Activity: Use your energy on important things

If you want to succeed in life, you should not waste your energy on activities that do not bring any benefits.

Such useless activities include surfing the Internet without any purpose, watching TV, worrying and wasting money.

When you are involved in such activities, you have no or little energy left for activities that can create a better future. It is worth prioritizing and accomplishing important tasks first, and then if you still have enough energy, you may decide to do the unimportant.

2nd Self Improvement Activity: Focus on one task at a time

If you want to get perfect results, you should only concentrate on one activity. This way all your energy will go into it and you will accomplish it perfectly.

If you waste your energy on several things at the same time, you will get average results because you will divide your energy between the activities.
 
3rd Self Improvement Activity: Control your thinking

To avoid chaos in your mind resulting in chaos in the outside world, you should try to observe your thoughts. Once you start doing that, you will notice how many negative thoughts you get daily.

By observing negative thinking you will be able to emotionally disengage from it. As a result, negative thinking will affect you less and you will notice that your days are getting more peaceful and positive.

4th Self Improvement Activity: Get organized

When you live in an organised manner, you do not suffer from stress and your life is peaceful and balanced.

To start living this way, you should start planning your day in advance. This will eliminate any stress caused by being late to a meeting or forgetting to complete some task.

You should also live in tidiness because by keeping your home clean you also keep your mental state clear and peaceful. Such mental state will benefit you in many ways, including improved memory and less negativity.
 
5th Self Improvement Activity: Live in the present

Although this self improvement activity may seem strange to you, it is a very important activity that many ignore. The majority of people do not live in the present. They either dwell on their past or daydream about the future. They seem to forget the most important time of all - the present.

You should enjoy every present moment because your current state of mind always manifests in the outside world, creating your future accordingly. Therefore if your main mood is very positive, you will experience only happy days. However, if you dwell on negative thoughts, you are sure to encounter many obstacles and misfortunes in the present and days to come.

6th Self Improvement Activity: Complete each task in a perfect manner
Whenever you are working on some project, try to accomplish it in the best way possible. Always ask yourself ‘Is this project turned out as perfect as it could possibly be?’ If the answer is no, try to correct or add something to it until there is nothing that you can improve.

This way you will make sure that each single task you accomplish is done in an excellent manner. By doing this you will create successful future because you cannot possibly fail if you only get perfect results.

Also, when you entirely focus on one task excluding everything else, you will notice that you start enjoying the task. If you concentrate on the task but still do not enjoy it that means that you probably see the task as a means to an end rather than the process.

You should start focusing on the process itself to find enjoyment in the task. Such enjoyment will fuel motivation and you will accomplish everything quicker and better.

If you enjoy your work, you will put only positive energy into it. As a result, your completed tasks will bring you success.

7th Self Improvement Activity: Challenge yourself

Nothing develops you more than challenges. Challenges force you to shift your comfort zone, experience new situations and make you grow. Without challenges life would be very boring and depressing.

Challenges are necessary for every human being who is seeking quality life. Only through trial and error you realise who you really are, which activities you like and what preferences you have.

You can easily measure the success of a person by the amount of challenges s/he had.

8th Self Improvement Activity: Read personal development books

There is nothing more important than searching information about self improvement. Without reading any self improvement books or articles you cannot improve yourself.

I have written an article about 20 life changing personal development books. It might be worth checking them out. Many of them are available for free! Click here to read this article.

9th Self Improvement Activity: Socialize only with positive people

Positive people can inspire, empower and make you happy. It is so much worth to be at least once in a while with positive people rather than constantly spend time with negative friends or relatives.

If you spend your days with, for example, lazy people, you may notice that you are becoming lazy.

If all your friends’ main qualities are negative, try to avoid all of them. This way you will not be affected in a negative way and after some time will start attracting positive people.

10th Self Improvement Activity: Exercise

Daily exercise develops determination, focus and patience. It improves your health and strengthens your body. It makes you more active, positive and invincible.

People who exercise every day are always perceived as strong-willed and disciplined.

Conclusion:
 These personal improvement activities are sure to put you on the track to success. I hope that you will apply the steps in this article and, as a result, will greatly improve the quality of your life.