Dont Take Tension....

The moment you are in TENSION You will lose your ATTENTION Then you are in total CONFUSION and you'll feel IRRITATION         This may spoil your personal RELATIONS Untimately, you won't get COOPERATION And get things into COMPLICATION Then you may raise CAUTION And you have to take MEDICATION Why not try understanding the SITUATION And try to think about the SOLUTION Many problems will be solved by DISCUSSION Which will work out better in your PROFESSION  Don't think this is a free SUGGESTION It is only for your PREVENTION If you understand my INTENTION You'll never come again into TENSION!!!!! !!!!!!!!!  Friends Are Forever            VISIT BLOG &FWD TO YOUR FRIENDS GO THROUGH THE I LAND POSTS             ramajayam.rediffiland.com ramajayamgomati.blogspot.com   Best Wishes & Regards,

HAVE A NICE DAY

I truly believe in this. How many flowers end up at the funeral home and how many flowers did the dead person enjoy while they were alive? Here's an e-flower from me!

Enjoy your day!

Flower Delivery ... 
I would rather have one rose and  a kind

word from a friend 
while I'm here, than a whole truck load

when I'm gone . 
 

These Are For You!!

Just Forward these to all your friends,

including back to me. 

And don't tell me that 
you're too busy for this. 

Don't you know the phrase ..... 
'Stop and Smell the Flowers' ??? 

Let's just see how many 'Bouquets' you

end up with !!! 

Happiness keeps you Sweet, 
Trials keep you Strong, 
Sorrows keep you Human, 
Failures keep you Humble, 
Success keeps you Glowing, 

But .... Only Friends ...... 

Keep You Going !!! 

Thanks for being a part of the team, 

whether you

are a reason, a season or a lifetime.

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HAPPY TUESDAY

HAPPY TUESDAY

    

A long time ago, before the world was created and humans set foot on it, God had put all the human "qualities" in a separate room. Since all the qualities were bored they decided to play hide & seek. 

"Madness" was one of the qualities and he shouted: "I want to count, I want to count!" And since nobody was crazy enough to want to seek "Madness", all the other qualities agreed. So "Madness" leaned against a tree and started to  count:

One, two, three..." As "Madness" counted, the qualities went hiding.  "reason" hid in a pile of garbage.. "Lie " said that it would hide under a stone, but hid  at the bottom of  the lake.  And Madness continued to count "... seventy nine, eighty, eighty one..." By this time, all the qualities were already hidden-except "Love ".

For stupid as "Love " is, he could not decide where to hide.

And this should not surprise us, because we all know how difficult it is to hide "Love".

"Madness": "...ninety five, ninety six, ninety seven..." Just when "Madness" got to one hundred..... ...."Love" jumped into a rose bush where he hide.

And Madness turned around and shouted: "I'm coming, I'm coming!" As Madness turned around, "Laziness" was the first to be found, because "Laziness" was too lazy to hide. "Madness" searched madly and found "Lie" at the bottom of the lake. One by one, Madness found them all - except Love. Madness was getting desperate, unable to find Love.

Envious of Love, "Envy" whispered to "Madness ": "You only need to find Love, and Love is hiding in the rose bush." 

"Madness" Jumped on the rose bush and he heard loud cry. The thorns in the bush had pierced "Loves" eyes. 

Hearing the commotion God came into the room and saw what had happened. He got very angry and cursed "Madness" and said since "Love" has become blind because of u... ..u shall always be with him" 

And so it came about that from that day on, Love is blind and is always accompanied by Madness.!

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Good Thinking !!!..

Good Thinking !!!....

A short walk is so difficult,
when no one walks with you.
But a long journey is just like few steps
when you walk with someone
who loves and cares for you.


We always look and care for the person
whom we love the most.
But we fail to look back at those
who love us the most.


Death’s not the greatest loss in life..
The greatest loss is when
relationships die inside us while
we are still alive...

Life is not about the people
who act true on your face.. 
Its about the people who
remain true behind your back..


Time decides whom you meet in life…
Your heart decides whom you want in life..
but your behavious decides
who will stay in your life...

You can win life by all means..
Yes..
If you simply avoid two things...
1. Comparing - with others
2. Expecting - from other

Life will be more beautiful!! 

BE HAPPY. IT'S ONE WAY OF BEING WISE.

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!! Cut Stress In A Relationship !!

!! Cut Stress In A Relationship !!

10 Ways to cut stress in a relationship

A Good communication and self management can remove the stress occurring in your married life. 

1. Prevention: If the stress comes from some factor outside your family, don't bring it home and unintentionally make your spouse share it. 
2. Self understanding: In moments of stress, you need to learn to control yourself. Evaluate your feelings and do not treat your spouse shabbily. 
3. Leave others alone: Staying away for a while from your spouse could be an effective way to prevent conflict from springing up. Make your spouse understand why you are maintaining a distance. 
4. Responsibility: Be conscious of your obligation to keep your relation in harmony. Don't let any stress damage the marital bond that has flourished so far. 
5. Stop worrying: Worries come when you anticipate something in the future while doing nothing about it. But have a plan B, it makes you ready and you find nothing to worry about. 
6. Do not stay still: When you are under pressure, the easiest thing to do is give up. But if you give up during hard times, it will haunt you for the rest of your life 
7. Self control: You should be able to take control of your emotions and once you do that you will automatically be able to control stress. 
8. Be flexible: You should be able to identify a situation and where it will lead to. When you know things will not go your way, try and be flexible. 
9. Go away: When you feel your relation is a little tense, it is best to take your mind off everything and do some activity that keeps you occupied. 
10. Ask others: Asking and consulting people once in a while for advice is not a bad option at all. Ask them how it was like when under stress and how was their feeling at that moment. That way you will know that they reacted and what they did.

       

 

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